Well~ though today it's just a simple day .. but i'm happy!!! accompany mummy the whole day!.... helped up in house chores, swept n mop the floor!!! omg~ huixin is doing house chores??? lolx =)
Went grandma house in the noon. Was on the way there, granny called n ask where we were, told her that we r on our way to makan n go her place after tat, den she say she is going J8 too to meet my aunts n ah gong.
Mummy n i decided to makan at the S-11 while waiting for ah ma. In the midst of no where, see these 3 familiar faces sitting over at one table, eating chicken rice!!! haha yupz, no other than my coz meiling n jenny with ah gong. haha, so we joined them for our "brunch" ... soon da gu n er shen came over to join us with ah ma ... yupz, after lunch we went BYSI to shop ard b4 heading to grand ma house. End up nv go grandma house, becas mummy have to go work... so it's kinda stupid to walk all the way into the private houses n sit for 30min n leave rite ... so we parted ways ... the rest go grand ma house n me accompany mummy to shop a while more in J8 b4 she head for work ...
GOSH~~~ we were so into our conversation that we did nt look at the in coming vehicles ... almost got banged!! haha ... didn't buy any things ... mummy bought her jeans n top ... n me??? haha food... duh~ ...
well that's the end of the day ... but i'm happy to lead this simple life ...
below is an email send by a friend ... which i think is meaningful ...
THE PEBBLE STORY
Many years ago in a small Indian village, a farmer had
the misfortune of owing a large sum of money to a
village moneylender. The moneylender, who
was old and ugly, fancied the farmer's beautiful
daughter. So he proposed a bargain. He said he would
forgo the farmer's debt if he could marry his daughter.
Both the farmer and his daughter were horrified by the
proposal. So the cunning money-lender suggested that
they let providence decide the matter.
He told them that he would put a black pebble and a
white pebble into an empty money bag. Then the girl
would have to pick one pebble from the bag.
If she picked the black pebble, she would become his
wife and her father's debt would be forgiven. If she
picked the white pebble she need not marry
him and her father's debt would still be forgiven. But
if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into jail.
All the villagers were standing on a pebble strewn
path in the farmer's field. As they talked, the
moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles.
As he picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that
he had picked up two black pebbles and put them into
the bag. He then asked the girl to pick a
pebble from the bag. Now, imagine you were standing in
the field.
What would you have done if you were the girl? If you
had to advise her, what would you have told her?
Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:
1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.
2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag and expose the money-lender as a cheat.
3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order to save her father from his debt and imprisonment.
Take a moment to ponder over the story. The above story is used with the hope that it will make us
appreciate the difference between lateral and logical thinking.
The girl's dilemma can not be solved with traditional logical thinking. Think of the consequences if she chooses the above
logical answers.
What would you recommend to the Girl to do?
Well, what she did was :
The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a
pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it
fall onto the pebble-strewn path where it immediately
became lost among all the other pebbles.
"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if
you look into the bag for the one that is left, you
will be able to tell which pebble I picked."
Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be
assumed that she had picked the white one. And since
the money-lender dared not admit his dishonesty,
the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation
into an extremely advantageous one.
MORAL OF THE STORY: Most complex problems do have a
solution. It is only that we don't attempt to think
Impossible is a word only to be found in the dictionary of fools.
yourstruly crapped @ Monday, October 25, 2004
walking on the road, on the way home, this thought came to my mind. "i wonder how's the feeling of getting into a Girl Girl relationship" duh .. i noe it's dumb k. but i dunno why i'm thinking of it ... haha though i'm from an all gals' sch. hmmm, perhaps gal can understand each other better n more sensitive?
Well another question ..."must all gals accompany their bf on every weekend when they book out???" sigh~ i noe will miss each other n so on. but must it come to an extent to stick together for the whole day? sigh~ my gal-friends are all attached now, n weekend is only meant for their bf... sometimes i really wish to tell them "when is our next gals' out day???" but then .. come to think of it .. definitely bf come to this moment of time is still most impt, the 1st person u wld like to hang out with 24hr. But have they tought off giving their guy some space to actually meet up their own friends ... hmmmm
weird dreams ... weird feelings ... i dun wanna think too much .. just concentrate on my sales n bring home as much $$ to help out ...
mummy is sick again, start to feel worried for her, sigh~ fortune teller says her life is nt to meant to work, but to enjoy, if she step out to work it's unlikely that she will cross 50 yr of age ... n she is already 48 now ... it's getting closer ...
mummy found out my menese got delayed again .. sigh~ tot it had start to be regular since the last hormone pills was taken. somehow, after the last follow up with KK just 2 wks ago ... it's back to the past??? so am i suppose to rely on those PILLS!!! i hate it!!! then mummy blame herself .. sigh~ but who wanna be in ill rite? den say she can't afford me to go uni will get uncle help .. but now wat i wish for is just a normal life ... mummy health to be pink .. n guess daddy is sick too .. just saw medicine on the kitchen table .. sigh~
though i really wish then i can further my studie .. but i've finally grad n rec my dilp n able to help lighten the load of my parents ... shld i or shld i not ...
troubled ~
yourstruly crapped @ Sunday, October 24, 2004
Yupz, a change of blogskin, but also nt i design one. just "cop" from the web. Hmm went to watch Oujia board last nite with teddy bear, mel, mel's bao bei, leon n my sis. But before that we went NYDC for dinner, with elvis along. Haha~ really enjoy my dinner. Elvis really joker of the day, with all his gestures n stuffs he tok abt. Wahaha, dennis now become gorrila. Keke.
How will i rate the show? Hmmm, i think it's scarier than the wishing stairs. But mel said wishing stairs more scary. Somehow, there's still parts which i got scared. The after effect of the show, was very predictable... yeah so nt that scary at all. rate the show 3popcorns.
Hmmm, getting lazy to go dance le. Jace n jean got exam so nt going. Then me lazy to go also. hur hur hur growing fat still dun exercise. hmm, me more excited in trying out my new skates!!! yuppie finally bought my roller blades, n now i can skate all i wans... wee hoo ... so going roller blading with ah ben n friends later ... wee weee weeeee
yourstruly crapped @ Saturday, October 16, 2004
Omg! just came across one my sec sch friend blog ... n realise one of my friend is actually engaged!!! It was like such a sudden news! n she act has a house too... omg .. i'm just turning 20 n now my friend is engaged .. n soon will be starting a family n blah blah blah .. while me ??? still directionless of my life .. duch even noe where to start from... sigh~
Was chatting with one of my junior .. sigh~ i really miss sch alot .. ok think i've mention this for many times .. but i really prefer those days in sch ... sec sch .. poly ... life were so much better! though there were tests exams n projects .. but i think i've enjoyed it ... those days after dance go KAP mac n makan then go back home ... rushed tutorial n sleep ... it's the happinest days in my life i gues ... sigh..
Think getting PMS ... these days i'm getting more emotional n easily provoked ... keep on thinking of the past .. i really hope i can walk out of this maze one of these days ... n nt living in it ... this feelings is really torturing n i hate it ... nobody does rite? sigh~
Well met ah ling chris n bomberman aka deon yesterday ... chris still look the same .. exactly the same!!! no change at all ... well as for deon .. yupz all thanks to NS he had become more man n muscular le! haha n a new hairlook now ... now more the bomberman helmet hair liaoz ... haa we went can coffee club n slack for a while before we head to K box... chris went home early cas she have to go tekong the next day to meet her bf ... ling me n deon sang till ard 2++ then we head home ... well i enjoyed myself at least .. haha
yourstruly crapped @ Sunday, October 10, 2004
Well~ things have been going fine for me ... enjoying work more n more each day with the bunch of colleagues ... though the guys always tease me ... one say i short one say i fat ... but then i'm still cute!!! wahaha rite? daniel --> i'm xiao mei nu rite? haha .. n i'm xiao pin guo (little red apple) haha! for the past two weeks were great! two weeks ago we went wild wild wet! Cool~ though there's nothing much to play - to much of my disappointment ... nevertheless i still enjoy with the company of luk n pig! haha this two guys were really big bullies.. kept tickling mel n me! making both of us falling off our float at the wave pool. n i have such difficulties to get onto the float ... haha without the help of the guys i think i will nv get onto the float .. it so damn big n tiring!!! after the last few fall i really want to give up getting onto it again ... really train my arm muscles man! haha but i still got the easy way out ... stepping on luk's shoulder to get onto it ... yupz n i won a pair of sesame streets musical ticket!!!
AND last sunday we had a healthy lifestyle!!! 1st we went to plat badminton .. oki i didn't play much becas luk is doing most the job .. opps~ i just try to escape from being by the shuttle cock .. those guys lar ... trying to shoot me with the feather-like fellow ... hur hur hur ... then after badminton we went toplay bball but didn't really play much .. it's scotching hot sia .. yupz n head to the pool ... just soak in the pool n get my tanned again!!
Yupz, so happy now ... i much more tanner now!!! yesh ... n my skin is peeling like mad ... arghh i can't wait for chalet (citibank dual chalet) n my surf boarding trip to come!!! gonna enjoy madly ....
Watched mid nite movie at lido last nite .. --> resident evil 2 .. hmmm nt that fantastic though .. but i enjoy screaming .. haha poor daniel sitting beside me .. haha sorrie for straining ur ear ... anyway u guys are great!!!
yourstruly crapped @ Sunday, October 03, 2004
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